The idea of a perfect man changes with age. The prurient teenage fantasies about the physique of Fabio give way to the hope of finding a caring man like Roberto Benigni in Life is Beautiful, who will call you his princess and believe so too. Soon we learn that a good sense of humor is the most important thing needed to live life. So, that would be numero uno in my list. The rest are enumerated in no specific order.
1. A man should know how to laugh at himself and occasionally, at you so that you don't take yourself too seriously.
2. A man should know how to make a meal. Even fixing sandwiches is a good quality.
3. He should know how to talk to children, to elders, to waiters- in fact, to anyone. He shouldn't be verbally challenged, shouldn't be garrulous either. Everyone will have their own fulcrum on which they balance the extremes.
4. He should love to travel, to explore new things. Novelty should excite him.
5. He should own a vehicle and know how to change its tires.
6. He should know to play at least one musical instrument. Better if he can sing along too. You can thank your stars when he serenades you or begins to hum your old favorite. Writing poetry can be a supplementary trait, or dancing, or painting -actually, anything in fine arts- you get the drift.
7. He should know his threshold of alcohol intake. Nothing is more embarrassing than a man who drinks beyond reason and makes a complete fool of himself socially.
8. He should know how to challenge you. Shouldn't agree with everything you say. You can't be right always. And if you needed a feet-licking pooch, you'd have gotten one. A man looks a man when he can give compelling, rational arguments to prove you wrong. You probably wouldn't like to admit it, but you'll be glad to see things from a different perspective.
9. A man should know how to take care of himself. He should follow a healthy exercise regime, try to eat right and nudge you to do so if you feel lazy at times.
10. He should know how to love and how to make love. I don't have to explain that.
1. A man should know how to laugh at himself and occasionally, at you so that you don't take yourself too seriously.
2. A man should know how to make a meal. Even fixing sandwiches is a good quality.
3. He should know how to talk to children, to elders, to waiters- in fact, to anyone. He shouldn't be verbally challenged, shouldn't be garrulous either. Everyone will have their own fulcrum on which they balance the extremes.
4. He should love to travel, to explore new things. Novelty should excite him.
5. He should own a vehicle and know how to change its tires.
6. He should know to play at least one musical instrument. Better if he can sing along too. You can thank your stars when he serenades you or begins to hum your old favorite. Writing poetry can be a supplementary trait, or dancing, or painting -actually, anything in fine arts- you get the drift.
7. He should know his threshold of alcohol intake. Nothing is more embarrassing than a man who drinks beyond reason and makes a complete fool of himself socially.
8. He should know how to challenge you. Shouldn't agree with everything you say. You can't be right always. And if you needed a feet-licking pooch, you'd have gotten one. A man looks a man when he can give compelling, rational arguments to prove you wrong. You probably wouldn't like to admit it, but you'll be glad to see things from a different perspective.
9. A man should know how to take care of himself. He should follow a healthy exercise regime, try to eat right and nudge you to do so if you feel lazy at times.
10. He should know how to love and how to make love. I don't have to explain that.
2 comments:
liked it, Loved #3 and #10th
Fantastic - I LOVE this post :D - you know it why - right :)
I think we should set up a score system - almost like a persistent score index where a man being persistent on each of these traits over a period of say ~ 5 years will be tagged as the "real" man - ( for e.g. each trait maintained consistently over a single year gets a score of 1 - and thus for 5 years it will be 5 - and for 10 traits - the max score a person can get is 50 - also its very easy to neutralize the score by not maintaining the trait for at least 50% of the year - in that case the person gets a score of 0 for the respective trait - you get the picture right - i can go on and on -) - I love this and the new matrimonial posts should bring up traits like this ;)
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