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Wednesday, September 07, 2005

"...when demi-gods go,Gods arrive...."

I often find myself telling a friend who talks of a broken heart.
I believe love should give u happiness...if it makes ur life miserable and u still take credit for bearing it..I am sorry..I don't have my sympathies for u... u r a miserable wretch...full of self pity..happy with the thought that the object of ur affection gives u attention by kicking right on ur teeth
We,human beings have a strange need for emotional well -being...the need to shower affection on someone we hold dear..maybe not the ideal one..but still...
We probably have the superstition that love can change anyone....
here is it where we go wrong..the basic nature of a Homo sapien can't change(dunno about chimps)
Radical change is bull shit!
People go out of their way to look for happiness.....while all the while..it might be sitting just next to u...
Rather..as someone most aptly puts it..INSIDE u!

I probably did the same...
believing those stupid fairy tales I read as a child..
kissing myself sore..expecting a frog to turn into a prince..
no, it does not happen in real life.Period.

16 comments:

Rainbow Warrior said...

Who's Broken Hearted

Aparna Kar said...

Anyone

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Zae's Love Child said...

Hmm. Love's just a fallacy.

L said...

Dunno what u state of..!! but I think lots ppl change in Love...have seen many gone thru changeovers just for their loved ones...!!

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ME-MOI-MYSELF said...

while i agree with your viewpoint, there is another side to the story - the person could be a masochist. It mightn't necessarily be " ...the object of ur affection gives u attention by kicking right on ur teeth" just that he or she likes pain being inflicted upon him/her.

Arsalan said...

I believe love should give u happiness...

Yes ma'am :)

We probably have the superstition that love can change anyone....
here is it where we go wrong..


Right you are ! No one can change anybody else. Everyone has to change himself.

the basic nature of a Homo sapien can't change(dunno about chimps)
Radical change is bull shit!


Don't agree. But everyone has to take his own responsibility.

People go out of their way to look for happiness.....while all the while..it might be sitting just next to u...

It's not even next to u, it's right in u.

AakASH!!! said...

You know what? I dont have my own words to show you the way, i suffer from the same disease.

But Bon Jovi sang:
"I always thought that our love was a story book tale
God knows that I'd never dream in the end it would fail

'Cause this is real life, this is real love
This is real pain that much I'm sure of
These are real tears, these are real fears inside that I can't
hide
This is real life, this is real love
These are real wounds that I'm bleeding from
And I realize this is real
This is real life, this is real love
This is real pain, that much I'm sure of"

What more...?

gimmeabreakin said...

Nice blog...don't agree with you on this one though. Nothing personal, but I think u might be in denial! ;)

puchku said...
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puchku said...

I just want to tell you something...

You hide the biggest lover inside your heart. You spend time, you try to analyse, you try to give and take reason, you agree, you disagree, you fight inside....but one thing for sure you are in it...you are with it...you are on it...you are under it.

While asking others, under your expressions in this blog, you are fighting your self which is a lover...a lover in search of know not whom...

And my personal view on love is...

It is like life...you would die...so logically we should live in horrible fear...but instead we live with dreams galore and we die only once...Love is like life you dont ask its justification to your self...you sense its intensity from your self...

Aparna Kar said...

@gimmeabreakin
Not exactly..he just couldn't love me the way I wanted him to..:)
But I have come to terms with it now..so I guess..it doesn't mstter now anymore..

@puchkoo
U know me well..I can't agree with u more :))

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Aparna Kar said...

@intelligent_bacteria
Thanks Ib .will be epecting u...