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Wednesday, September 07, 2005

"...when demi-gods go,Gods arrive...."

I often find myself telling a friend who talks of a broken heart.
I believe love should give u happiness...if it makes ur life miserable and u still take credit for bearing it..I am sorry..I don't have my sympathies for u... u r a miserable wretch...full of self pity..happy with the thought that the object of ur affection gives u attention by kicking right on ur teeth
We,human beings have a strange need for emotional well -being...the need to shower affection on someone we hold dear..maybe not the ideal one..but still...
We probably have the superstition that love can change anyone....
here is it where we go wrong..the basic nature of a Homo sapien can't change(dunno about chimps)
Radical change is bull shit!
People go out of their way to look for happiness.....while all the while..it might be sitting just next to u...
Rather..as someone most aptly puts it..INSIDE u!

I probably did the same...
believing those stupid fairy tales I read as a child..
kissing myself sore..expecting a frog to turn into a prince..
no, it does not happen in real life.Period.

8 comments:

Aparna Ganguly said...

Anyone

L said...

Dunno what u state of..!! but I think lots ppl change in Love...have seen many gone thru changeovers just for their loved ones...!!

ME-MOI-MYSELF said...

while i agree with your viewpoint, there is another side to the story - the person could be a masochist. It mightn't necessarily be " ...the object of ur affection gives u attention by kicking right on ur teeth" just that he or she likes pain being inflicted upon him/her.

Samik said...

I believe love should give u happiness...

Yes ma'am :)

We probably have the superstition that love can change anyone....
here is it where we go wrong..


Right you are ! No one can change anybody else. Everyone has to change himself.

the basic nature of a Homo sapien can't change(dunno about chimps)
Radical change is bull shit!


Don't agree. But everyone has to take his own responsibility.

People go out of their way to look for happiness.....while all the while..it might be sitting just next to u...

It's not even next to u, it's right in u.

AakASH!!! said...

You know what? I dont have my own words to show you the way, i suffer from the same disease.

But Bon Jovi sang:
"I always thought that our love was a story book tale
God knows that I'd never dream in the end it would fail

'Cause this is real life, this is real love
This is real pain that much I'm sure of
These are real tears, these are real fears inside that I can't
hide
This is real life, this is real love
These are real wounds that I'm bleeding from
And I realize this is real
This is real life, this is real love
This is real pain, that much I'm sure of"

What more...?

Aparna Ganguly said...

@gimmeabreakin
Not exactly..he just couldn't love me the way I wanted him to..:)
But I have come to terms with it now..so I guess..it doesn't mstter now anymore..

@puchkoo
U know me well..I can't agree with u more :))

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Aparna Ganguly said...

@intelligent_bacteria
Thanks Ib .will be epecting u...