সৃষ্টি সংলাপ

শুভ বিজয়া সকলকে । 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

আপনাদের জন্য একটা বিশেষ উপহার নিয়ে এসেছি বন্ধুদের সঙ্গে মিলে, আশা করি আপনাদের ভাল লাগবে।

বাঙালি সাহিত্য প্রেমীদের জন্য তৈরি বিনামূল্যে ম্যাগাজিন। আমার ব্লগে আপনার পছন্দের লেখা নিয়ে আপনার মতামত অবশ্যই জানাবেন।

 "সৃষ্টি সংলাপ" or "A Dialogue in Creations" is a heartfelt endeavor, carefully compiled and gathered directly from budding Bengali writers.

Indulge in this complimentary magazine designed for Bengali literature enthusiasts. 

Please share your feedback on my blog about your favorite writers. 

I promise you that your comments will be relayed to them.

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Literary Festival Day 2 at Sanskriti Durga Puja 2023

Organized by Dishari Public Library and Sikor o Dana Book Club. Hosted by me.

On Day 2, we discussed the works of a prominent Bengali writer, Bibhutibhushan Bandyopadhyay.

উমার মায়ের কাছে তার লেখা চিঠি

মা আসছে , তাই মনে খুব আনন্দ  ।

কিন্তু  আমাদের মা দুর্গা ও তো পরদেশী  ।

শুধু কিছুদিনের জন্য  নিজের মায়ের বাড়ি  যেতে পারে  ।

সে যদি তার মাকে চিঠি লিখতো  তাহলে সেটা কেমন হতো  ?

Call out for writers for open mics

This is a callout for local Bengali writers for the Literary Meet (Celebrating Bengali Language) at Sanskriti Durga Puja this year.

Address: 6430 Thornton Ave Newark, CA 94560 

I will be hosting open mics on Oct 14 from 2-4 p.m. for self-composed pieces and a discussion on the works of Bibhutibhushan Bandopadhyay on Oct 15 from 2-4 p.m. 

Sign up by letting me know, and I will send you the link to a Google Form.

Be inspired by nature

Being inspired by nature is a profound and timeless source of creativity and wisdom. Nature's intricate designs, awe-inspiring landscapes, and the delicate balance of ecosystems have sparked the imagination of artists, scientists, philosophers, and innovators throughout history.

From the graceful Fibonacci sequence found in seashells and sunflowers to the elegant engineering of bird's wings, nature's patterns and structures offer valuable lessons. They teach us about efficiency, sustainability, and adaptability. By observing nature, we can learn how to design more energy-efficient buildings, create sustainable agriculture practices, and develop innovative technologies inspired by the natural world.

Moreover, nature's beauty and serenity have a soothing effect on the human spirit. Time spent in natural settings can reduce stress, improve mental health, and promote well-being. This connection to nature fosters a sense of responsibility to protect and conserve our environment, recognizing that our well-being is intricately linked to the planet's health.

Nature has been a constant muse in art, inspiring countless masterpieces in painting, sculpture, literature, and music. The play of light on leaves, the colors of a sunset, and the intricacies of a spider's web have all been translated into works of art that capture the essence of nature's beauty and complexity.

In essence, being inspired by nature is not just about admiration; it's about learning, innovating, and coexisting harmoniously with the natural world. It encourages us to seek sustainable solutions, celebrate the wonders of our planet, and recognize that we are part of a vast and interconnected web of life. Nature's lessons are timeless, and our ability to draw inspiration from it can lead to a more harmonious and sustainable future.

Heartbroken

In shadows cast by love's departing sun,

A heartache blooms where once a fire had spun.

The echoes of your laughter now are gone,

And in this solitude, I'm left undone

A collage of memories unfurls,

Each thread a tear, a sigh, a string of pearls.

In every whispered breeze and starry night,

I find your absence like a silent fight.

Like shards of glass, they gleam,

A reflection of a broken dream.

Yet, through this pain, a fragile strength takes hold,

For in my heart, a story still unfolds.

I'll gather up the pieces, one by one,

And in their jagged edges, see the sun.

Though I'm torn and bruised, I'll rise above,

To find a greater and stronger love.

Though heartache is now my constant friend,

I'll mend my heart and let it love again.

For in the darkest hour, I will find,

That even broken hearts can heal with time.

The history and origin of Lord Ganesha

The form of Ganesha that is usually worshipped

Lord Ganesha, also known as Ganapati or Vinayaka, is one of the most widely revered and worshiped deities in Hinduism. He is easily recognizable by his elephant head and is often depicted with a potbelly, four arms, and a broken tusk. The history and origin of Lord Ganesha have evolved over time and are richly embedded in Hindu mythology and religious texts.

Several myths and legends are associated with Lord Ganesha's origin, and the details may vary in different texts and traditions. However, one of the most popular and widely accepted stories is from the Puranas, particularly the Shiva Purana and the Ganesha Purana.

Birth of Ganesha: According to Hindu mythology, Ganesha is the son of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. The story goes that once, Parvati created a figure from the dirt and oil on her body and breathed life into it, forming Ganesha. She then assigned Ganesha the task of guarding the entrance to her bath while she took a bath.

Conflict with Shiva: When Lord Shiva returned and attempted to enter Parvati's chamber, Ganesha, following his mother's orders, refused to let him in. This led to a fierce battle between Ganesha and Shiva. Shiva's anger escalated during the battle, and he ultimately severed Ganesha's head with his trident.

Rebirth of Ganesha: Upon realizing his grave mistake, Shiva was grief-stricken and decided to make amends. He instructed his followers, the Ganas, to find the head of the first living being they came across and bring it to him. The first creature they encountered was an elephant, and they brought back its head. Shiva then attached the elephant's head to Ganesha's body, bringing him back to life.

Blessings and Significance: After Ganesha's resurrection, he was blessed with numerous divine qualities and became the deity of wisdom, intelligence, and the remover of obstacles. He is also considered the patron of arts and sciences.

The worship of Lord Ganesha has become an integral part of Hindu culture and religious practices. He is often invoked at the beginning of any significant endeavor, ceremony, or festival to remove obstacles and ensure success. The festival of Ganesh Chaturthi, which celebrates Ganesha's birthday, is one of India's most widely celebrated festivals.

Baby Ganesha

While this story is one of the most well-known, there are variations and regional interpretations of the origin of Lord Ganesha. Regardless of the version, Lord Ganesha holds a special place in Hinduism and is revered as the benevolent deity who grants wisdom and removes obstacles from the lives of his devotees.

A free coloring page of Lord Ganesha. 

Download, print, and enjoy! 

The Witch Sisters' Tale

Once upon a time, in a mysterious forest hidden far away from the bustling world, there lived two sisters who were witches. The elder sister, Morgana, was as dark as a moonless night. She wore black robes and a pointed hat that cast shadows over her face, making her look fearsome. Children in the village whispered tales of her and called her the Witch of Shadows. But Morgana had a heart as kind as a summer's breeze.

The younger sister, Isabella, was the complete opposite. She wore bright and colorful dresses adorned with rainbows. Her hair was dyed in every color imaginable, and she always carried a basket full of candies that sparkled like gemstones. Children in the village adored her and called her the Candy Witch. But beneath her colorful exterior, Isabella had a wicked secret.

One day, a group of children ventured into the forest. They were drawn by Isabella's colorful appearance and the sweet smell of candies that seemed to float through the trees. They followed the trail of rainbow-colored wrappers that led them to Isabella's cottage, painted in the most vibrant colors.

"Hello, children! Would you like some candies?" Isabella asked, her voice as sweet as honey.

The children couldn't resist the temptation and eagerly took the candies from her basket. They tasted delicious, like nothing they had ever experienced before. But soon, their laughter turned into cries of pain, and they fell to the ground, writhing in agony.

Morgana, the Witch of Shadows, heard their cries and rushed to the scene. She saw her sister Isabella standing there, looking shocked.

"What have you done, Isabella?" Morgana exclaimed.

"I didn't mean to harm them, Morgana," Isabella cried, tears streaming down her colorful cheeks. I only wanted to steal their laughter for my magic. But their screams are too loud!

Morgana knelt beside the suffering children and used her magic to heal them. Slowly, the children's pain subsided, and they began to recover.

As the children regained their strength, they realized that appearances could be deceiving. They had been drawn to Isabella because of her bright and colorful exterior, but Morgana, the Witch of Shadows, had a heart full of kindness.

Isabella, overcome with guilt, vowed to change her ways. She knew she could never fully erase the harm she had caused, but she wanted to make amends. She started by helping her sister Morgana with her acts of kindness, using her colorful magic for good.

Together, the two sisters became known as the Healing Witches of the forest. Using their unique powers, they helped the children and the animals and plants of the woods. The lesson they taught everyone who crossed their path was simple: never judge someone solely by their appearance, for true goodness can often be found where it is least expected

Exploring the Timeless Beauty of Florence: A Journey Through Art, History, and Culture

Artistic rendition of the Duomo

Florence, often referred to as the "Cradle of the Renaissance," is a city that needs no introduction. Nestled in the heart of Tuscany, Italy, this enchanting destination has captivated travelers for centuries with its rich history, magnificent art, and undeniable charm. The past and present seamlessly merge here offering a unique experience for all who visit.

Alessandro Filipepi alias Sandro Botticelli (1445-1510), The birth of Venus, 1484-1486 circa, 
Tempera on canvas. Uffizi Galleries, Florence, Italy.

The Artistic Legacy of Florence

Florence's artistic legacy is unparalleled. The city was home to some of history's greatest artists, including Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo, and Botticelli. You can immerse yourself in the artistry of Florence by visiting iconic museums and galleries, such as the Uffizi Gallery and the Accademia Gallery. These institutions house masterpieces like Michelangelo's David and Botticelli's The Birth of Venus, giving you a firsthand look at the Renaissance's golden age.

Twilight at Duomo in Florence, Italy

Architectural Marvels

The city's skyline is dominated by the magnificent Florence Cathedral, also known as the Duomo. Climbing to the top of the Duomo provides breathtaking panoramic views of the city and a chance to admire the intricate details of its construction.

Another architectural gem is the Ponte Vecchio, a historic bridge adorned with shops that date back to the 16th century. Stroll across the bridge to take in the Arno River's views while exploring the charming boutiques that line its edges.

Cultural Riches

Beyond art and architecture, Florence offers a vibrant cultural scene. The city's streets are like an open-air museum, with historic palaces, piazzas, and churches at every turn.  And the baskers sing opera!

Be sure to visit the Palazzo Pitti and the Boboli Gardens, where you can experience the opulence of the Medici family's former residence and enjoy a tranquil stroll through meticulously landscaped gardens. 

Culinary Delights

Florence is a paradise for food enthusiasts. Indulge in the flavors of Tuscany by savoring local dishes like ribollita (a hearty Tuscan soup), pappa al pomodoro (tomato and bread soup), and the famous Florentine steak. Pair your meal with a glass of Chianti wine for an authentic taste of the region.

Exploring Beyond the Center

While Florence's historic center is a treasure trove of attractions, take advantage of the opportunity to explore the surrounding areas. The Tuscan countryside is dotted with vineyards and picturesque towns like Siena and San Gimignano, both easily accessible on day trips from Florence.

Artistic rendition of Ponte Vecchio

Florence, with its timeless beauty, artistic treasures, and cultural richness, is a city that leaves an indelible mark on all who visit. Whether you're an art aficionado, a history buff, a foodie, or simply a traveler seeking a magical experience, Florence offers something for everyone. It's a place where history whispers from every cobblestone, and the spirit of the Renaissance lives on in every brush stroke and every note of classical music that fills the air. Plan your visit to Florence, and prepare to be enchanted by this living masterpiece. I had the good fortune of visiting it this summer, but I have to go back again. One time is not enough!

How to become a better leader

Managing teams involves a lot of self-awareness, effective communication, and constructive feedback. Here are some fundamental principles that I have recognized as steps to help you become a better leader:

Self-Awareness:

Understand your strengths, weaknesses, values, and leadership style.

Seek feedback from peers, superiors, and subordinates to understand how others perceive you.

Continuous Learning

Stay updated with industry trends and leadership best practices.

Read books, attend workshops, and seek out mentors or coaches.

Effective Communication:

Develop strong communication skills, including active listening, clear articulation of ideas, and empathy.

Foster open and honest communication within your team.

Lead by Example:

Demonstrate the behaviors and values you expect from your team members.

Set high standards for yourself in terms of work ethic, integrity, and professionalism.

Empower Your Team:

Delegate tasks and responsibilities to team members, giving them ownership and autonomy.

Trust your team's abilities and avoid micromanagement.

Women of our Imagination

The women of our imagination beckon us,

In the warm midnight, we are bewitched,

Those who venture into the moonlit exile,

We sit in contemplation before them,

In unquestioning devotion, we beseech,

Before the red-blossoming lotus bud,

With all senses - eyes, ears, and skin.

To enter their illusory world,

They require only self-surrender,

But when the sorcerous trance fades,

We'll regain all senses, and an idiot’s bliss.

Translated from-

কল্পকথার নারীরা 

কল্পকথার নারীরা আমাদের ডাকে 

উষ্ণ মধ্যরাতে আর বিভ্রান্ত আমরা,

যারা গৃহত্যাগী জোৎস্নায় চলে যাব 

ভেবে বসে থাকি, তাদের সম্মুখে যাই 

প্রশ্নহীন আনুগত্যে, নিবেদন করি 

লাল বিস্ফারিত পদ্মপাপড়ির কাছে 

চোখ, কান, ত্বক সহ সমস্ত ইন্দ্রিয়। 

তাদের মায়াবী পৃথিবীতে যেতে হলে 

তাদের নিয়মে শুধু আত্মসমর্পণে 

খেলা শুরু হতে পারে তবে জোৎস্নার

যাদুকরী ঘোর কেটে গেলে ফিরে পাবে 

সমস্ত ইন্দ্রিয় সঙ্গে নির্বোধের সুখ।

by Amitabha Kar

Ideas for aesthetic collage art journal spreads

Creating aesthetic collage art journal spreads can be a fun way to express yourself. Here are some ideas to inspire your art journaling:

Nature-Inspired: Combine images of flowers, leaves, birds, and landscapes to create a calming nature-themed spread. Add quotes or snippets of poetry related to nature.

Vintage Vibes: Use old photos, vintage postcards, and retro imagery to give your spread a nostalgic and classic feel. Consider using sepia tones and handwritten elements.

Travel Adventure: Compile images of places you've been or dream of visiting. Incorporate maps, boarding passes, and travel quotes to capture the excitement of exploration.

Dreamy Watercolors: Experiment with watercolor paints to create soft, dreamy backgrounds. Layer images, doodles, and handwritten notes over the painted background.

Botanical Beauty: Focus on botanical illustrations, pressed flowers, and intricate leaf patterns. Add calligraphy or cursive writing for an elegant touch.

Minimalistic Monochrome:Embrace a minimalistic approach using a limited color palette. Choose black and white images with pops of a single color for visual impact.

Fantasy and Magic: Combine fantasy elements like unicorns, fairies, and magical landscapes. Use glitter, metallic pens, and iridescent materials to create a whimsical effect.

Inspiring Quotes: Center the spread around motivational quotes. Pair them with images that resonate with the message for a visually inspiring collage.

Urban Exploration: Collect images of cityscapes, street art, and architectural details. Incorporate newspaper clippings, city maps, and snippets of urban life.

Collage Self-Portrait: Create a collage that represents different aspects of your personality, interests, and experiences. Use images, textures, and symbols that hold personal significance.

Emotional Expression: Express your feelings through colors, textures, and imagery. Let your emotions guide the composition and choice of elements.

Cultural Fusion: Blend images, patterns, and symbols from different cultures to celebrate diversity and create a vibrant, multicultural spread.

Seasonal Delights: Design a spread that captures the essence of a particular season. Use images and textures that evoke the feelings of that time of year.

Dream Journal:Incorporate dream-like elements such as clouds, stars, and surreal imagery. Creatively record your dreams or aspirations.

Music and Art: Combine images of musical instruments, album covers, and  musical notes with visual art elements to create a harmonious spread.

Remember, there are no strict rules in art journaling. It's all about exploring your creativity, experimenting with different materials, and expressing yourself in a way that feels authentic to you.

Breakfast ideas for diabetics

When planning breakfast for someone with diabetes, focusing on balanced meals that help manage blood sugar levels is essential. Complex carbohydrates, lean proteins, healthy fats, and high-fiber foods can create a satisfying and nourishing morning meal. Here are some breakfast ideas for diabetics:

Greek Yogurt Parfait

Greek yogurt (plain, unsweetened)

Fresh berries (blueberries, strawberries, raspberries)

Chopped nuts (almonds, walnuts)

Drizzle of honey or a sprinkle of cinnamon (optional)

Oatmeal with Nut Butter

Steel-cut oats or rolled oats (avoid instant oats)

Almond butter or peanut butter (unsweetened)

Sliced bananas or diced apples

Chia seeds or flaxseeds for added fiber

Veggie Omelette

Whisked eggs or egg whites

Chopped vegetables (bell peppers, spinach, tomatoes, onions)

Feta cheese or low-fat cheese

Serve with whole-grain toast or a side of avocado

Whole Grain Toast with Smoked Salmon

Whole grain toast (low-carb or high-fiber bread)

Smoked salmon

Sliced cucumbers and red onion

Light cream cheese or Greek yogurt spread

Chia Seed Pudding

Chia seeds soaked in unsweetened almond milk

Vanilla extract or a touch of cocoa powder

Fresh berries or sliced kiwi

Quinoa Breakfast Bowl

Cooked quinoa

Sliced almonds or chopped walnuts

Diced mango or mixed berries

A drizzle of low-sugar maple syrup

Cottage Cheese with Berries

Low-fat cottage cheese

Mixed berries (strawberries, blueberries, raspberries)

A sprinkle of cinnamon or a few chopped nuts

Veggie and Cheese Wrap

Whole wheat or low-carb tortilla

Scrambled eggs or egg whites

Sautéed vegetables (zucchini, mushrooms, spinach)

Shredded cheese (low-fat)

Smoothie Bowl

Blended smoothie with unsweetened almond milk or water

Spinach or kale

Frozen berries or a small banana

Chia seeds or ground flaxseeds

Unsweetened protein powder (if desired)

Avocado Toast with Egg

Whole grain toast

Mashed avocado

Poached or boiled egg on top

Season with salt, pepper, and a dash of red pepper flakes

Monitor portion sizes and consult a healthcare professional for personalized dietary recommendations. Balancing carbohydrates with protein and fiber can help stabilize blood sugar levels and provide sustained energy throughout the morning.

Dreamcatcher

Dreamcatcher in the night's embrace,

Weaver of dreams, guardian of space.

Hung above with feathers and thread,

Catching the tales of slumber's thread.

In the realm of twilight's gleam,

You dance with stars like a moonbeam.

Trapping worries in your intricate design,

Letting only sweet dreams intertwine.

Spider's art, a delicate feat,

You spin a web where nightmares meet.

But fear not, for you hold the key,

To set the dreamer's spirit free.

Hanging by the bedside, you sway,

As night turns into a brand new day.

Dreamcatcher, with your magic rare,

You chase away darkness, show us care.

Each bead, each loop, a mystic charm,

Guiding us through the night's alarm.

Dreamcatcher, keeper of the night,

You bring us solace, hope's pure light.

Who is an artist? Can AI-generated "art" be considered art?

With generative AI tools creating artwork with just text prompts, the legal and ethical question remains- who owns the copyright to AI-generated art?

In some cases, if an individual or a company directly creates or controls the AI program that generates the art, they might claim copyright ownership. In other cases, the legal framework might consider the AI as the "creator," which could mean that the copyright is not owned by any human entity.

Under current U.S. copyright law, AI-generated artwork cannot be protected by a potential copyright owner. What does that mean for collaborations between humans and an AI-generated piece? Some of the most recent court decisions relating to collaborative work are a good place to look for an answer.

 Getty Images is suing Stability in both the USA and the UK for allegedly using millions of pictures from Getty’s library to train Stable Diffusion. In the USA, Getty is reportedly claiming damages of $2 trillion!

One of my friends had this opinion-

" Realism lost much of its meaning and charm when cameras came. Avant-garde art was all about abstracting out the real. Then came digital cameras, and film development became a lost art. Almost everybody became an expert photographer. Now with AI, everybody is an expert artist. One way to look at it is technology democratizes art creation by reducing the need for skill, effort, cost, and training."

Is that democratization of art creation something to be feared? Or should we encourage AI-generated art as inspiration? Or even consider it a mere tool like a brush, pencil, or charcoal.
 

For example, I created these images using text prompts:

 

Inspiration for a jazz piano-themed cake design

Inspiration for a fairy garden

Inspiration for Madhubani Durga- which will serve as a starting point for something I want to create on canvas using acrylic colors

Honestly, I don’t think AI can ever replace true artists. At least, not shortly. For example, look at the proportion of the hand 🤚 in the last image; it is so off. 

Even the AI-prompted write-ups don’t make sense without intensive human editing and can be extremely long-winded and repetitive. It will take years of training to reach professional-grade products. I may prompt the AI to generate ideas, but the final product still needs an artist to give it a cohesive look. This is like using Adobe Stock Photos to create banner elements. You still need a tagline that makes sense and is right for a conference's audience. And everything needs to be symphonic. Or else it will just be colorful clutter.

AI is still very nascent. It is making the jobs of graphic designers easier. For example, AI can make the menial time-consuming imagery in the background, while human artists can focus more on the objects in the foreground that are key to the illustration. This is precisely the outcome that major technology companies envisioned AI to achieve: alleviating the creative load that, from a relative standpoint, a creator might perceive as lacking true creativity.

And I say this as the director of some very talented graphic designers - AI can't replace my team of humans. Also, we will always need human minds for the correct prompt engineering. Future generations of AI systems will get more intuitive and adept at understanding natural language, reducing the need for meticulously engineered prompts. Still, someone will need to understand the problem in the real world and convey it to the AI to generate solutions. Also, it will always be humans who will eventually pick the variations based on the relevance/ context.

Who is an artist?

If you ask me,  an artist is a person who creates visual, auditory, or performance-based works to express their creativity, emotions, and ideas. Artists work in various mediums, such as painting, sculpture, music, literature, dance, etc. Their creations often provoke thought, emotion, or appreciation from audiences.

In that regard, AI is creating art. And the "art" I create using text prompts encourages me to use my brush and canvas more. Of course, it is easy to say that because I am not generating any income by using AI art. for illustrations on my blog or social media or blatantly copying any copyrighted material to generate my images. What happens when there is more than a passing similarity between a pre-existing piece of work and AI-generated art? What happens to companies like Getty Images when tools like Stable Diffusion use their copyrighted images to train their AI?

In the US, “fair use” may be relevant to the Stability case, but this is less applicable in the UK. In the UK, the Copyright Designs and Patents Act 1988 is unusual in tackling this issue as “computer-generated works”. It defines the owner (or author) as the person who makes the “arrangements necessary for the creation of the work”, but this will not always be so easy to determine, and it may be difficult to pick out where, and which, human has “made arrangements”.

However, who among us, who likes to dabble in art, has not tried to copy the great masters before we developed our own style? How was our training any different from what the AI is learning to do? The more we expose ourselves to art, the more we learn to appreciate it. Nurture it. Cherish it. 

To keep art alive, you must expose yourself to more art. Both human and AI-generated. And expand your imagination beyond what you think is possible.

Call for submissions

দূর্গা পূজার সময় স্কুলের ছুটি থাকত, তখন প্রচুর গল্পের বই পড়ার সুযোগ পেতাম । কিন্তু একটা বিশেষ বইয়ের জন্যে সারা বছর অপেক্ষায় থাকতাম কখন হাতে পাবো - পূজাবার্ষিকী আনন্দমেলা ।  

পরীক্ষা চলাকালীন যদিও বা পূজাবার্ষিকী বাড়িতে চলে আসতো, আমি সেটা পড়ার টেবিলের ড্রয়ারে ঢুকিয়ে রাখতাম ।  রোজ একবার করে ড্রয়ার খুলে দেখতাম আর মনকে সান্তনা দিতাম যে পরীক্ষাটা ভাল করে দিয়ে নি এরপর উপভোগ করে পড়ব । শুধু পড়া? শুয়ে, কাত হয়ে, চিৎ হয়ে, উপুর হয়ে, কাঁথা মুড়ি দিয়ে, দাঁড়িয়ে, চলতে চলতে, খেতে খেতে - কত ভাবে যে পড়তাম তার হিসেবে নেই । অল্প বয়েসে চশমাটা বোধ হয় তাই লেগেছে । 😄

তখন লেখকের গল্প বলার কৌশলে হারিয়ে যেতাম সুন্দরবনের জঙ্গলে বা লন্ডন শহরের ভীড়ে কিংবা আফ্রিকার কোনো দুর্গম উপত্যকায় । গল্পগুলো আর মনে নেই । মনে আছে শুধু অনুভূতিগুলো আর কৈশোরের সেই মধুর স্মৃতি । 

আমরা কি সবাই মিলে সেই ভালো লাগাটা  আবার ফিরিয়ে আনতে পারি না ?

এর আগেও একটি crowd-sourced  বই বের করেছিলাম Valentine’s theme এ  “Love Notes” বলে ।  এইবার পূজো উপলক্ষেও একটা বের করতে চাই । তাই বন্ধুদের আবার পাশে চাই । বাংলায় লেখা কবিতা, গল্প, রেসিপি,  ভ্রমণ কাহিনী, হাতে আঁকা ছবি বা ফটোগ্রাফ- সব চলবে ।একটাই অনুরোধ - নিজেরা ভালো করে প্রুফরিড করে এরপর পাঠাবেন তাতে আমার কাজটা অনেক সহজ হয়ে যাবে । 

ধন্যবাদ !

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The Weird Barbie

Last evening, I watched the Barbie movie with a few friends. I was expecting it to be a pure comedy, but the themes were, surprisingly,  gender equality and patriarchy. And some hard-hitting truths.

*** Spoilers ahead***

It is naive when the Barbies in the Barbieland think that by creating several templates of professionally successful women like doctors, astronauts, Novel laureates, and Presidents, the brand "Barbie" has managed to inspire women to reach out for their dreams. Unfortunately, a Barbie is considered a symbol of bimboism. In the real world, the stereotypical Barbie would be a super fake-looking woman with fake boobs and a push-up bra, thick layers of pink make-up, hair dyed in some horrendous colors, and someone never seen without high heels. So much so that her feet can not rest flat on the ground.

You would also conclude that someone as obsessed with their looks and keeping up with fashion trends would have minimal intellect. Someone who can't talk about anything other than themselves. Who needs things to be explained to them, spelled forward and backward, to get them to understand what is happening. Someone incapable of feelings, thoughts, or even reflecting on existential questions like - what is the meaning of life or death.

Wrong.

Barbie is not about making us feel bad about being unavailable to achieve unrealistic beauty standards but also about giving us a dream and chasing it. If Barbie didn't exist, women would find something else to compare ourselves to because we like to suffer. And people take advantage of that insecurity and petty jealousies and make us clash while they can keep doing what is essential. Grow ourselves in every possible way.

When talented women fight for the attention of mediocre men. When the competition is not about who can deliver the most value but who can grab the most attention, we lose. The "sisterhood" loses.

There is a running joke about Mattel churning out friends of Barbie every year, "If Barbie is so popular, then why do you have to buy her friends? " My business mind says that it is an exercise in getting a customized doll for every child. As a kindergartener, I identified myself more as Skipper, the lesser-known sister of a more successful sibling. Having a more mathematically gifted sibling did that for me. Someone like Mackenzie Keene, the younger sister of Katy Keene in the limited 2000s series that appeared in Archie's Comics. 

But now, the world is a little more my own, and I know that even Skipper has a purpose. Not only to complement Barbie, she can grow up to be her own person. Even if not brilliant, she can succeed in her chosen field if she applies herself. In fact, with time, she can do better than her more gifted family members by sheer grit. And a bit of luck.

She doesn't even have to feel bad if she has exceeded her expectations about her place in the world, not in someone else's shadow, but as a shining example herself.

Boss by day, Barbie by night

Created using Barbie Selfie generator

The Weird Barbie

Though there were different references to pop culture and several guffawable (I made up this word right now) moments, one character really stood out for me - Weird Barbie. She embodies the persona of an outsider whose unique qualities are not entirely embraced by the other inhabitants of Barbieland.

She is the doll we played with too hard. Everyone had one of those- the one we shampooed the hair of, and it turned frizzy. Then we decided to give it a haircut but found out that we cut it too short, and now we can not tie it to hide the irregularity of the hairline. The one someone painted the eyes on, or you decided to add eyeshadow with your favorite glitter pen. The outcome was a grotesque-looking doll that made Annabelle look positively angelic. 

Apparently, the "Weird Barbie" character was inspired by the YA sci-fi novel "The Giver," where the main character is the only one with memories and emotions in a society where everyone else is the same.

The world is full of those weird Barbies who speak the truth, but in a language nobody understands. Whose weirdness or quirkiness gets in the way of communicating their sanity. Or at least, clarity of thought, The village madman is pronounced a prophet when everything has burned down.

Even I sometimes feel like the "weird" one when I shout my premonition from the top of the roof, which is nothing but a pattern observed from historical events. Yet, people decide I am raining on their parade. Then they come back to apologize, eventually. But we need these witches, these weirdos, these soothsayers. What is in a label? 

The Monologue 
One particular monologue by America Ferrera as Gloria in 'Barbie' stood out for me; even if it smells of vacuous victimhood at first, there is some truth to it.

It is literally impossible to be a woman. You are so beautiful and so smart, and it kills me that you don’t think you’re good enough. Like, we have to always be extraordinary, but somehow we’re always doing it wrong.

You have to be thin, but not too thin. And you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can’t ask for money because that’s crass. You have to be a boss, but you can’t be mean. You have to lead, but you can’t squash other people’s ideas. You’re supposed to love being a mother, but don’t talk about your kids all the damn time. You have to be a career woman, but also always be looking out for other people. You have to answer for men’s bad behavior, which is insane, but if you point that out, you’re accused of complaining.

You’re supposed to stay pretty for men, but not so pretty that you tempt them too much or that you threaten other women because you’re supposed to be a part of the sisterhood. But always stand out and always be grateful. But never forget that the system is rigged. So find a way to acknowledge that but also always be grateful. You have to never get old, never be rude, never show off, never be selfish, never fall down, never fail, never show fear, never get out of line. It’s too hard! It’s too contradictory and nobody gives you a medal or says thank you! And it turns out in fact that not only are you doing everything wrong, but also everything is your fault.

I’m just so tired of watching myself and every single other woman tie herself into knots so that people will like us. And if all of that is also true for a doll just representing women, then I don’t even know.

It is hard being a woman in a man's world already. Don't make it harder by implying to each other that we are not enough. Men can be our allies too. But when have you seen the powerful sharing their power deliberately? Very few understand the balance required for the world to function. Women are walking out of their stereotypical roles, and more and more men support women to earn, chase their dreams,  and be the best version of themselves, even when it is inconvenient. Even when they have to participate in domestic chores, child-raising duties, or other roles that have been traditionally gender-stereotyped. Such limitations hinder women and men from fully realizing their potential, pursuing their professional ambitions, and making autonomous choices that shape their lives. Who is to say that a man can't be a better nurturer than a woman? Or would a woman not add more value in a boardroom with her ideas?

Let people choose who they want to be and what roles they want to play in pursuing their happiness. 

The heart of the movie was in one *scene, though. When Stereotypical Barbie (Margot Robbie) meets an elderly woman at a bus stop, she says to her," You are beautiful !" And the elderly woman ( played by Ann Roth, an Oscar-winning costume designer) replies with conviction," I know!" with a slaying expression. 

Age can't wither your beauty or diminish it. You just have to embrace the changes in your body as you gain experience. We are all filled with anxiety about aging and death. We want to stay young forever and inject toxins so our muscles will freeze and will give us a more youthful appearance. But Death (or aging) is nothing to be feared. There is beauty in every phase of life. I may not have the supple skin or thick hair I had in my twenties. But I have the confidence of a woman who has earned a few accolades with determination. I will be 40 soon, but this doesn't scare me.

I am looking forward to it.  And all the adventures life will bring to me. 

(*This scene was almost. cut from the movie, read here why.)

The joys of creation

In the realm of creation, where dreams take flight,

Lies a profound and wondrous delight.

With hands poised to shape and minds set afire,

The joys of creation ignite our inner desire.

In strokes of a brush on a canvas so bare,

A world unfolds, vibrant and rare.

Colors dance and blend, telling tales untold,

A symphony of hues, a masterpiece to behold.

Through words spun with care, on pages they land,

A universe takes form, crafted by hand.

Characters breathe, their stories unfold,

Imagination unleashed, a narrative to behold.

In melodies composed, notes soar and entwine,

Emotions awakened as harmonies aligned.

Each chord a heartbeat, each rhythm a tale,

Music's creation, a journey we hail.

In the shaping of clay, a sculpture takes form,

A vision emerges through patience and warmth.

From the hands of an artist, a figure breathes life,

The joy of creation in sculpting is so rife.

In gardens that bloom, with petals so fair,

Nature's artwork is a gift to share.

From seeds to flowers, a transformation unfolds,

The joys of creation, in nature's manifold.

From buildings of steel to structures of grace,

Architectural wonders, in time and in space.

Lines and curves, spaces conceived,

Creation's marvels, in structures achieved.

Through innovation and invention's embrace,

New horizons are discovered, pushing the limits of space.

Inventions arise, born from the curious mind,

The joys of creation, in discoveries we find.

In each act of creation, be it big or small,

There's a spark of magic, a divine call.

The joy that arises when visions take shape,

Creation's embrace, an escape to reshape.

So embrace the joys of creation's vast sea,

Let your spirit roam; let your mind wander free.

For within us lies a power untold,

The joys of creation forever unfold.

The Sea of Love

In a sea of emotions, their love did reside,

Two souls intertwined like the ebbing tide.

They swam in the depths, hand in hand,

Drowning in love beside a pebbly strand.

Their hearts were buoyed by a love so deep,

In an ocean of passion, they ceaselessly leap.

Each breath they took, filled with devotion,

Their souls entwined, an eternal notion.

Their eyes spoke volumes in silent whispers,

As they danced amidst love's gentle blisters.

Their bodies embraced like waves crashing ashore,

Lost in each other, forever wanting more.

Together they swirled in a passionate dance,

An intoxicating rhythm, a lover's trance.

The world faded away as their love took flight,

In this watery realm, where emotions ignite.

They surrendered their fears to love's undertow,

In a watery embrace, they learned to let go.

Their souls intertwined, immersed in desire,

A love so deep, it could never expire.

But like the ocean's depths, love can be rough,

And in its currents, they faced enough trials.

Yet, their bond was unbreakable, their love so pure,

They swam against the tides, forever secure.

For even in the depths, where darkness may reside,

Their love shimmered brightly, a radiant guide.

They drowned in the depths but never in sorrow,

Their love is a lifeline to face each tomorrow.

So let their love be an ocean, vast and wide,

A tale of two souls, forever side by side.

In this watery realm, where love knows no bounds,

They found solace as the depths resound.

A couple drowning in love, together they sway,

Embraced by the currents, they'll never stray.

In this eternal ocean, their love shall endure,

A timeless testament, forever pure.

Bollywood Villains: Amrish Puri

This is a tribute post to one of my favorite villains of Indian cinema. Amrish Puri was a legendary Indian actor who left an indelible mark on the world of cinema with his exceptional performances.  Let's explore some iconic roles (arranged chronologically) that Amrish Puri played throughout his career, spanning over 400 movies. I might have missed a few, but this will give you a good idea.

It stemmed from the conversation this morning when someone posted an image of how AI imagines an Indian GoT cast would look like, and the late Amrish Puri ji was cast as The Night King.

Someone asked: "Is it the bad guy from Indiana Jones Temple of Doom?" I felt the need to educate him,"Yes. Amrish Puri. One of the scariest villains in Hindi cinema. RIP."

Most world cinemagoers know him as the ruthless Thugee cult head Mola Ram practicing child slavery, black magic, and ritualistic human sacrifice in honor of the goddess Kali in the Indiana Jones movie. Years later, Spielberg said about his actor: “Amrish is my favorite villain. The best the world has ever produced and ever will”.

Experience the menace in his voice, even if you don't understand Hindi.

Thakral - "Meri Jung" (1985):

In "Meri Jung," Puri portrayed Thakral, a corrupt lawyer manipulating the legal system for personal gain. Puri's commanding presence and intense performance made Thakral a formidable antagonist. His portrayal added complexity to the character, evoking fear and hatred among the audience. I find it disturbing when educated characters like Thakral can convict an innocent man of murder just for avarice. Their moral compass is so off that it worries you - if lettered and privileged people can be so selfish, how could you expect anything from people who have grown up in more adverse conditions?

Mogambo - "Mr. India" (1987):

My favorite, Mogambo was an eccentric and power-hungry supervillain, synonymous with Puri's portrayal. With his trademark dialogue, "Mogambo khush hua," popular even today, Puri brought a perfect balance of menace and humor to the character, making Mogambo an iconic Bollywood villain.

The name Mogambo came from a 1953 Hollywood film of the same name starring Clark Gable.

General Dong - "Tahalka" (1992):

Amrish Puri's portrayal of General Dong showcased his versatility as an actor. General Dong was a tyrannical military dictator of a country called Dongrila. He kidnapped school girls and plans to use them as suicide bombers to bomb populated areas in India. He even puts some girls into the personal harem, pushing the remaining ones into prostitution and trafficking their limbs and organs for money. Puri's performance revealed the character's sinister nature, creating a sense of dread and fear. His trademark dialogue," Dong Kabhi Wrong nahi hota" was a testament to his hubris that eventually brought him down.

JK-  "Vishwatma"  (1992):

Amrish Puri portrayed a complex and intriguing character named JK. While JK is not a conventional villain in the film, his actions and motives make him a significant antagonist.

JK is a powerful and influential businessman with a hidden agenda. He manipulates the lives of the film's protagonists and plays a pivotal role in driving the narrative forward. Puri's performance as JK brought charm, cunningness, and ruthlessness to the character. What made Amrish Puri's portrayal of JK particularly captivating was his ability to switch between charm and menace effortlessly. 

Dilawar - "Damini" (1993):

In the critically acclaimed film "Damini," Amrish Puri played Dilawar, a corrupt and morally bankrupt politician. Puri portrayed Dilawar with a perfect blend of charm and menace, displaying his character's ability to manipulate and exploit others. His performance in the film earned him widespread praise for portraying a compelling and detestable antagonist.

Thakur Durjan Singh - "Karan Arjun" (1995):

In this reincarnation-themed action drama, Amrish Puri portrayed Thakur Durjan Singh, a tyrant seeking to maintain power and control. Puri's portrayal of the merciless Thakur, with his powerful dialogue delivery and imposing presence, was truly impactful, making him one of the most memorable villains of Bollywood.

Baldev Singh - "Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge" (1995):

In this romantic blockbuster, Amrish Puri played Baldev Singh, the strict and traditional father of the female protagonist. Although not a conventional villain, Puri's portrayal of Baldev Singh was unforgettable. He showcased the character's stubbornness, deep-rooted values, and resistance to change, becoming a significant obstacle for the film's young lovers.

It was unusual to see him as a protective patriarch, too stuck on his beliefs to understand what would make his daughter happy. You pity him because he is so optimistic about the match he has arranged for his daughter that he is blind to the incompatibility she will have to deal with for the rest of her life. Unfortunately, such characters are not rare, and I have known parents whose wrong decisions ruined their children's lives. In this movie, however, he sees sense in the end and gives his permission to her to marry someone pf her choice,"Ja Simran, Ja. Jee le apni Zindagi!" I use this when I jovially give permission to a friend to live a little. :D

The joke is - Who are we to decide the fate and choices of anyone else, including our parents, siblings, and children?

Thakur Ranbir Singh - "Koyla" (1997):

In "Koyla," Amrish Puri portrayed Thakur Ranbir Singh, a cruel and oppressive feudal lord. Puri's portrayal of Thakur Singh captured the character's sadistic and tyrannical nature. His commanding screen presence and dialogue delivery added depth and authenticity to the character, making him a formidable antagonist. In fact, the only memorable thing about this movie were the songs and Amrish Puri. 

Chaudhry Baldev Singh - "Gadar: Ek Prem Katha" (2001):

In this historical drama set during the partition of India, Amrish Puri played Chaudhry Baldev Singh, a Muslim-hating politician. Puri skillfully portrayed the character's bigotry and fanaticism, creating a memorable villain who instilled a sense of loathing in the audience. His performance stood out in a film known for its emotional intensity.

Raja Saab - "Nayak: The Real Hero" (2001):

Amrish Puri played Raja Saab, a powerful and influential politician in this political drama. Puri's portrayal of Raja Saab depicts a cunning and manipulative character who stops at nothing to maintain his hold on power. His performance was marked by intensity and conviction, making Raja Saab a memorable villain in the film.

These are just a few examples of the iconic villains Amrish Puri brought to life on the silver screen. His ability to infuse these characters with depth, complexity, and an unmistakable aura of villainy left an everlasting impression on audiences worldwide, at least upon me. His contribution to portraying villains remains unparalleled, cementing his legacy as one of the greatest actors in Bollywood history. Another favorite is probably Pran Sahab. But that is a post for another day.

Amrish Puri ji suffered from myelodysplastic syndrome, a rare kind of blood cancer, and died on January 12, 2005, at 72. He lives on in our hearts and in our imaginations. The true mark of an artist.